I never realised that I have changed. Until someone clang to me sometime ago, and said that I have changed. She left me with a big question mark inside my head...Changed into what? Maybe some of me have changed, and she just happened to notice them, but she never mentioned which part.
I am still what I am what I used to be, and I assume that she never knew me thoroughly in the first place, in which made she said that. Or maybe I did change, but I myself never noticed that.
Of course, people will change over the time. Someone is no longer a playful one like he or she used to be. Someone is no longer difficult. Someone is no longer stupid or ignorant. Those who never changed are wasting their lifetime.
Why change? Some said it's because the world changes. What world? Some said it's because the new era we're in. New era? While some said it's simply the law of nature. I would agree to the third opinion. I would rather say 'evolve' than 'change'.
For animals, they evolve just to fit into the current surroundings that they're in, for survival, basically. For human, it's more than to survive. It's more like the betterment of the quality of our life. It's just wasting if we stay on the same paradigm, or in other word, 'comfort zone'. Life will never be lived without changes. Of course there would be some wrong decisions made along the way. Human and mistakes are linked to each other. Mistakes are part and parcel of life. Nobody is perfect after all.
The parts that never changed in my life are my name and my family. The rest, you see for yourself, because I have no intention on assessing myself as it may be biased. All I can do is keep improving, keep learning and keep my head as low as I could.
Parts of me are better than anyone else, but parts of me also are worse than anyone else. Don't tell me I'm good or anything as if I would care. There are more people who are way better ahead of me out there. I'm just a servant of God, and just like everyone else on the street. No better. Worse, maybe.
I am still what I am what I used to be, and I assume that she never knew me thoroughly in the first place, in which made she said that. Or maybe I did change, but I myself never noticed that.
Of course, people will change over the time. Someone is no longer a playful one like he or she used to be. Someone is no longer difficult. Someone is no longer stupid or ignorant. Those who never changed are wasting their lifetime.
Why change? Some said it's because the world changes. What world? Some said it's because the new era we're in. New era? While some said it's simply the law of nature. I would agree to the third opinion. I would rather say 'evolve' than 'change'.
For animals, they evolve just to fit into the current surroundings that they're in, for survival, basically. For human, it's more than to survive. It's more like the betterment of the quality of our life. It's just wasting if we stay on the same paradigm, or in other word, 'comfort zone'. Life will never be lived without changes. Of course there would be some wrong decisions made along the way. Human and mistakes are linked to each other. Mistakes are part and parcel of life. Nobody is perfect after all.
The parts that never changed in my life are my name and my family. The rest, you see for yourself, because I have no intention on assessing myself as it may be biased. All I can do is keep improving, keep learning and keep my head as low as I could.
Parts of me are better than anyone else, but parts of me also are worse than anyone else. Don't tell me I'm good or anything as if I would care. There are more people who are way better ahead of me out there. I'm just a servant of God, and just like everyone else on the street. No better. Worse, maybe.
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